Hi @Faith-and-Hope

Hope you dont mind me answering your question over here.

S2 is at a christian school and yes there is lots of wonderful support there, just didnt need everyone knowing there was problems and it could have been easily prevented. 

Thankfully one the  ladies in the office who knows us overheard a discussion amongst the 'authority' figures, principle etc. as they were heading out to search for him and asked could they leave him alone and let her deal with it as he likes her. (Well outside her position) thankfully they allowed her request and she was able to turn things around.