That is such a shame @Former-Member, my mothers family are all over Australia, so i don't get to see any of them, my fathers side don't want anything to do with me, and since dad died, hollidays are just not the same, i usually try to sleep through Christmas and birthdays, so i don't have to remember.

It is so hard when we lose our support, especially from family members, please remember the good times you had with her.

Oh no @Former-Member, i did not know thaey are toxic, they certainly give me bad hayfeaver, but mum loves them so we have them everywhere.

Will be thinking of you over christmas/Boxing day @Former-Member.