Introducing myself - I'm lost in the SANE online space.

[tyme]

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@Zol wrote:

I admire the work of Brene Brown and Simon Sinek in this regard. 
I may need to do a some HRM related courses for credentials / respect (for my experience) / self-affirming the principles of respect in the workplace. 
I was planning to go this path this time last year, when I was offered the good paying job that didn't work out. 

Perhaps "talking" about this here is giving me more confidence to pursue this path.

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Why not?? If this is what you are interested in, then go for it. Actually, when I was at uni, I did an entire unit on working with people and it was the MOST helpful unit when working with people. I learnt so much about the "skill" of working with people, especially when things aren't smooth sailing @Zol 

[tyme]

How you going today @Zol ?

[Zol]

Hi Tyme.

I'm Ok.
Let time split away.
I did some research into HRM courses in my area that hopefully will suit me.
I think I'll look at job demand and strategies to get into the areas I'm interested in.

I'm guessing that some with HR training end up as job agents like on LinkedIn.
I would like an aspect of that in my work, but not solely as on online agent finding people.
I'm not keen on the number of agents online fishing around looking for people.
Esp as I never feel like most jobs suit me or my previous talents and skills are not what is in demand today.

My dad asked for some help with his peach tree so I must dash off now.

[tyme]

Nice @Zol ,

Yep, I guess just do what you can and when you can, even if it's seeing to a peach tree 🙂

Enjoy!

[Zol]

Thanks for checking in.

[Pinkcushions]

Hello friends 🩷

I've just joined the forum/ the guided program today. I'm usually not very active in forums etc but intend to make an effort in an attempt to not isolate myself further lol.

I struggle with a number of MH conditions, but considered "high functioning" by most people I know, and no idea how to articulate myself irl, so iykyk - I have felt on my own with this for a very very long time.

At the moment I'm having a lot of trouble with dissociation/ maladaptive daydreaming, to the point where I will put on TV to entertain my son so I can be "elsewhere" in my mind. I'm generally one of those annoying no screentime people too, so if you knew me you'd be 😬

I feel like I've lost my whole life so far to dissociation, including my son's life which is the saddest part, and it's really the driver in me being here and hopefully learning to be present in this actual reality, not the ones in my head.

If anyone has or does experienced this, I'd love to connect and chat and maybe feel a little less alone in this. 

I also have possibly the worst sense of humor and laugh at all the wrong moments - a common coping mechanism perhaps? 😅

Anyway - sorry about the rant. Hope to ramble at you all again soon x

[Zol]

Hi @tyme 
I asked the admins to change my name from Mat4 to Zol, which has just happened now.

So if we communicate via @Zol, you will know that I am the same person with the anon name Mat4.

Today, I lost track of time again.
I am am a bit angry or impatient with myself and I know I can get done some of the things I need to do to look after my money and look for work. 
I'm not sure what the emotion is but I'm using it to change get things done rather that get overwhelmed by there being too much too do.

[rav3n]

@Pinkcushions just saw your post here! i actually had a convo around daydreaming with a few others recently, i'll tag them here so they can check out your post too 😊 @Jynx @Blackcloud 

also can relate to laughing as a coping mechanism... you know what, i have a feeling you'll enjoy checking out the The Ice-Memery - SANE Forums 

[Pinkcushions]

Thank you very much @rav3n!

And love the meme thread - only did a quick scroll and was already having a little chuckle 😅

[fruitisgood]

Hello, my therapist reccomended me this site. 

Have been dealing with cPTSD for most of my life. Feeling quite lonely and isolated at this point in time and wishing to reach out to others who understand and can empathise in a safe space. 

I love going to the beach to swim and snorkel. I also enjoy watching movies and reading books. My favourites are the fantasy genres currently.  

My hope is to gain some insight, seek support, and perhaps offer my own insights and experiences to others who feel alone and are struggling.