Hello @flash-ferret
I hear what you are saying about work conditions and the attitude of others, who may be protecting themselves by not getting involved. Another variation of the “guilt by association” issue, that can make it difficult for others to be seen supporting us during such difficult events and situations.
That feeling of having reached rock-bottom is experienced in many different ways and for as many different reasons, by people who have also come to the forum, for support, assistance and an opportunity to express concerns in a relatively safe environment. Also to be able to interact with others who may also have been in similar situations and with whom you can share thoughts and ideas about moving forward. I have read through the responses to your original post and thread. Many others have stated, both on your thread and others, having had similar experiences.
Having a diagnosis of a mental health issue or difficulty can cause us to feel, somehow, vulnerable. But when we get a break and secure a job, especially one in which the work and companionship gives us considerable enjoyment and not only financial but non-financial rewards, we feel especially accepted and appreciative.
The reasons for release from a position can be many. Although the reasons may be stated, the foundation reasons may be different from those stated by the employer. That is not, what I believe is ethical, fair and, in your situation, not necessarily what has occurred, but it may be something to consider. I do believe that most of the options, that may have been available to you, have been explored by you, and others, who have offered their suggestions.
I understand that the events that you describe took place about twelve months ago. The work was contract based. I believe that it would be difficult, at this stage, and after that length of time, to have the decision reviewed, or overturned. The only other option, that I may have considered plausible, if taken sooner, but may even now be worthwhile, would be to have a carefully written letter, possibly with legal assistance, addressed to your local Member of Parliament, requesting that the information that you have collected be considered, with a view to the possibility of having, at least, your position possibly vindicated. This may cause the department, for which you worked, to be very cautious about making any adverse comments, should they be asked for a work reference.
Other than that, I can only suggest recovering any lost ground in your area of expertise, by continued or additional studies. This can be used by you to demonstrate your continued interest, application and up to date knowledge in your area of expertise.
Because I do not know the regional area in which you live, I have no way of knowing whether there may be any other employers, requiring your skills and expertise, available to you. Though IT skills can often be offered and applied in relatively small towns now.
Like you, I have been diagnosed as having ADHD and clinical depression, for which I continue to take a relatively high dose of medication, that unfortunately, is likely to continue for the rest of my life. I have had to face significant problems in my areas of occupation, for those and other reasons. Consequently, I can say, that as a result of the difficulties that I have faced, I am personally aware of the types of difficulties that you face, and have faced. It can be very hard to “get back into the saddle again”, after such negative experiences, and continue on the journey in a meaningful way.
Paradoxically, much of my employment life was based on assisting others, as students in selecting first employment positions, older people who were unemployed, seeking new positions or others wanting to improve their positions by changing their employment, as well as referrals for psychological assistance and support as appropriate. But my employment history was not a nice, smooth experience. I am now retired.
I mention that because, if I can assist with any thoughts, ideas or discussion that may help in any way, I would be most happy to respond.
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