21 Oct 2018 04:54 PM
21 Oct 2018 04:54 PM
Dear @Former-Member
it’s been quite upsetting for me to have these daily continual criticisms given to me. You have just lightened my load.
I’m too overwhelmed to respond adequately but will one hour
21 Oct 2018 05:45 PM
21 Oct 2018 05:45 PM
Hi @PeppiPatty
and @@Boo13 @Bunniekins @Shaz51
Great suggestions
@Former-Member lol
I am so slow at responding to criticisms and very reticent to give them.
It is being able to respond in the moment ... when they come.
21 Oct 2018 05:46 PM
21 Oct 2018 05:46 PM
@Appleblossom Me too! I just smile and let them wash over me and try not to show that they hurt.
21 Oct 2018 05:51 PM
21 Oct 2018 05:51 PM
I havent been able to respond like that ... yet ... will work on it. @Bunniekins
Yesterday someone said a criticism and I calmly said ... its not like that ... was so proud of myself ... it did not upset any apple carts and shows I am getting quicker ..
@PeppiPatty Take your time.
21 Oct 2018 07:07 PM
21 Oct 2018 07:07 PM
Great suggestionsn @Former-Member
21 Oct 2018 08:21 PM
21 Oct 2018 08:21 PM
It is great suggestions aren’t they and I will use too
21 Oct 2018 08:23 PM
21 Oct 2018 08:23 PM
Reticent is the word I was nagging Mr Moody how to use it but he said I meant resistant
21 Oct 2018 08:33 PM
21 Oct 2018 08:33 PM
@Former-Member
Im reading your ideas phew 😅 why can’t I think of these ?
The medication one is brilliant 💡🌸 and so is the cleaning one because I often go to someone’s home 🏠 and do dishes etc .......
thankyou so much ......
judgements are very fullon aren’t they @Bunniekins with children. My family are very judgemental with my son. I was just on the phone with my ex father in law who wAs judging my sons life 24/7 actions. So I got away with saying goodbye ...... my poor poor son .....
21 Oct 2018 09:05 PM
21 Oct 2018 09:05 PM
@PeppiPatty yes family can be the worst re: judgements. My mother constantly judges my daughter and all it does is upset me! I wish she would stop. I have asked her too and she did for awhile but who knows how long that will last.
21 Oct 2018 09:57 PM
21 Oct 2018 09:57 PM
Not Long @Bunniekins
men and women take their unconscious problems out on women .......
esp. us little bit more vulnerable
This is a pic of a quilt I’m making for a baby
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